Here at BBW Dating world we always try to bring full awareness to plus size dating. And in this segment we have an interesting thing to share with you. One of our readers wanted to contribute to write on his experience on dating a fat woman. He wanted to write about all the pros and cons that he felt during the relationship.
We thought this would make a great thing to put on this site. We know that many guys (and even girls ) are wondering how its like dating a plus size woman. And the great thing is that it can hopefully spark more interest in them from our readers around the world. Plus size dating has already reached popularity among people.
Hey, nice site keep up the great work. If you allow it I would like to write a piece on my experience dating a plus size woman. If you are interested please contact me, thank you.
So here it is.
Peters Experience on Dating a Fat Woman
The first thing I would like to say is thank you to the site for allowing me to share my thoughts on this. And another thing I would like to say is that I myself am not overweight. I am an average looking guy, with a medium build. And I hope many of your readers can relate to this, or at least try to.
How it Felt at The Start
At the start of it all it felt a bit foreign to me. All of my previous relationships were with women that were the same size as me, or slightly skinnier. I was never with a fat woman before. I may have been friends with them, but that was it. I never really started thinking to date one until I met one through my social circle. Suprisingly, I did not meet her on the dating sites like others do. She really had a pretty face and nice curves, but she was fat and she knew it. Everyone new it. But I tried to put those feelings behind me and for the first time in my life I started getting some feelings for a plus size woman.
At the start of dating a fat woman you might be trying to convince yourself of your choice. That was what was happening to me. My old self was trying to get into the way of my new self. The best thing to do at this point is to trust yourself and your feelings.
I actually liked this fat girl and wanted to spend time with her. I also started thinking about what it would feel like to have sex with her. These are all normal feelings a man might get at the start of dating a woman anyway.
This was also another uncomfortable feeling at first. When we were in public people could tell that we were a couple. And yes there were some people that would look at us a bit longer, or maybe give us some odd looks. You know, when people think that someone is not a good match for their partner.
There were also times when other guys would look at me in strange way, and there were other times when guys would give me props. There were even some men who would try and hit on my fat girlfriend. It was at this point I realized that everyone has different tastes, and it is best to stop worrying about any of this non-sense. The best thing to do is to focus on your own relationship and whether or not a fat woman can make you happy. All the other external things that some up is just BS.
This is one of the things that surprised me the most. We had some really good lovemaking sessions. I never knew how sexy a fat woman can be in bed. I also never expected her to have that type of sexual drive that she did. And this is something that I wanted other guys to know: you would be surprised how good it can be. Especially is she is type that takes care of herself and is conscious about the way she looks. It can really be a great thing.
I can confidently say the she was one of the the best partners I had in bed. She was so giving and attentive to me and I really appreciate.
This was different than some other girls I dated, where they wanted to do nothing in bed but just lay there and let me do all the work. So just here to say that it was a great experience and other guys should not judge a fat woman until they try one for themselves.
The Problems That Came Up
Surprisingly the majority of issues that came up were from her end. There were issues of low self esteem where she would think that she was not “good enough” for me. Or maybe that I could do better than her, and that I don’t really want to be with her.
There were also times where she would think I was with her just for the sake of having a girlfriend. This was of course all not true. But this is something that may come up with other guys too. There may be low-self esteem issues if you start to date a fat woman. I am sure this is not all of them, but just sharing my experience.
Dating a Fat Woman Vs. A Normal Woman
To be fair, there weren’t that many differences between them. Actually some of my experience was better with a fat woman.
The thing that makes dating a normal woman better is that it feels easier. It is the easier thing to do as society and your friends and family expect it. Does that mean it is the best thing for you? of course not. You should date any woman who you feel is best for you.
As I was saying before, during the relationship with a fat woman you might have doubts. But these doubts are really just stupid thoughts that may arise. Thoughts that are coming from external sources and pressures and don’t have any value.
The more I listened to myself and other the better I felt. In my opinion there was no major difference between dating a fat girl and a normal girl.