As many may know, dating big girls can also have its advantages. And in this article we wanted to go more in detail about this topic.
Sometimes it may seem like it is not fair, as dating skinnier girls seems to have the most benefits (according to most men). And this is debatable, since beauty is really in the eye of the beholder. In any case, we think that dating big girls is also a great thing and can be rewarding for some guys.
It must also be noted that women are being judged much more than usual in society these days. With competition being high, girls are self conscious about there appearance more than ever. And with the social media boom, competing or “standing out” from others is more of a factor for many plus size girls.
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The 7 Best Things About Dating Big Girls
Ok so here is it is, these are 10 amazing benefits of dating a plus size girl, according to most sources.
Tend to Have Better Personalities
Big girls usually have better over-all personalities. Many argue that the reason for this is that they are not used to always getting what they want in society. They don’t only get things because of their physical appearance. This is the opposite for “ideal” skinnier girls which usually get everything given to them from guys without them having to earn it.
It has also been reported that the bigger girls have better personalities on the dating sites, and are easier to talk to.
So generally bigger girls tend to have good personality, without being full of themselves.
Eager to Please Their Man
Many sources have agreed that big girls are very giving by nature. They are eager to please their men, and are not ashamed of admitting it. This is a great experience for men, which allows them to experience the full female/male dynamics in a relationship.
This is also clear to see the opposite in many “perfect” skinny women who don’t seem to think they need to put any effort in doing anything for their man. They may think that they are too good to need to be eager to please their man.
Many men have confirmed that big girls enjoy pleasing their man, and are not ashamed of it. This is one main reason why men do like big women romantically.
Better Sense of Humor
Not only is this a stereotype that can be seen in films and media, but it is also a reality according to many guys who are dating big girls.
Big girls seem to have a great sense of humor. Spending time with them can be very enjoyable, even if just as friends.
You may have heard guys say, “I can’t date this girl because she is fat, but the time we spend is still so enjoyable and fun”. It is also one reason why many guys have a hard time actually dating bigger girls.
There is also the stereotype of skinny girls having absolutely no sense of humor at all, and even being so boring and bland. Again, this also ties into the fact that bigger girls tend to have better developed personalities.
They Enjoy Eating (Not Picky With Food)
Ask any guy that has been out on enough dates and they will know that many skinny girls are very self-conscious when they eat in front of you. And they are also very picky about the food they eat. Because as you know, these perfect girls have to keep the “status quo”, and they sure as hell don’t want to be judged by others.
This can sometimes be annoying, as you just want to be able to enjoy yourself without any of these extra quirks.
With big girls most of the issues are non-existent. They are not afraid to admit that they enjoy food and they are not as picky as to what they eat.
Not “High Maintenance”
Big girls are not as high maintenance as the skinnier ideal girls. And this can reduce a whole lot of stress for the guys.
Sometimes it is just great dating a girl without always trying to please her, or impress her with gifts, trips, dates, your physical appearance. And this is now truer than ever. Girls are more high maintenance than ever before and many guys have been feeling the pressure in relationships.
Dating big girls does not have these issues (usually). They are not high maintenance and are appreciative of the things you give for them. And it doesn’t take much to keep them happy. This is one of the reasons why men like big women.
Can Be Easier to Ask Out
Again, big girls usually have better personalities. And admittedly, it is the the skinnier girls that gets approached and asked out on dates by most guys.
This can make it easier to ask out big girls, especially the ones local to you.. They simply don’t get approached and asked out as much as the skinnier girls. And because of this they are much more appreciative of guys approaching them. This is the way it should be! we men love it when women are appreciative of us.
So this a great benefit of plus size women: it can be easier to go approach them and ask them out on a date.
Less Pressure on You to Look Your Best
There is so much pressure these days in relationships. Everyone is always working so hard to try and impress their partner. And this is even more so with guys. In order to get the “hotter” skinnier girls they have to work hard to keep her. Which means they put more effort into their physical appearance. And to be honest, this is not a bad thing. Everyone should put a bit of effort in the way they look.
The problem is that doing too much of that is unhealthy in a relationship. You shouldn’t always be under pressure to look your best in order to keep the girl.
Dating bigger girls has been a lot more relaxing for most guys. You don’t always have to be in shape or worried that she may leave you for the fitter guy. For the open minded guys, it can be a great experience dating a fat woman.
Big girls don’t put that much emphasis on physical features. Usually they are not shallow people who only judge men on their looks.